How To Get More Out Of Church

A Special Place
Church. I love that word. I love what it represents. I love what my mind thinks of when I hear the word. I believe the church is a special place. I grew up in church, so I’m a “church kid” if you’re in to labeling it. I’m not bitter about it. I’m don’t need therapy because of it. I’m not in need of deconstruction as a result of it. I’m blessed to have had the privilege to be raised in church. The church is a beautiful, exciting, and edifying place to us as believers!
We’re Not All the Same
If you invited me to your family’s Christmas party with all of your relatives, I would feel a little out of place. You may go to grandma and grandpa’s house every year with the whole clan, but as a newcomer, I would be uneasy. I wouldn’t know if I should keep my shoes on or take them off. I’d ask before opening the fridge to get a drink. If I had a ball cap, I’d take it off just in case. I think this is a similar feeling that newcomers have when they come to church. People are comfortable in what we are familiar with. Regulars may know when to sit, when to stand, where the classes are, and when to say “amen”. Newcomers will often just sit back and watch. Where there is unfamiliarity, there is an uneasiness that we all feel.
A Clear Challenge
I believe that the church is clearly described and modeled in the New Testament as a physical, local place, not just an idea or symbolic term. Paul admonishes Timothy this way, “These things write I unto thee, hoping to come unto thee shortly: But if I tarry long, that thou mayest know how thou oughtest to behave thyself in the house of God, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and ground of the truth.” (I Timothy 3:14-15) We need to know how to behave ourselves when we come to church.
If you are familiar with golf, there are all kinds of rules, but many of them are what we would call unwritten rules. You don’t walk in the line of someone else that is putting. You take your glove off when you putt. You stop moving and stay quiet when one is hitting. You use a tool to repair divots on the green. Generally, you fix one or two extra as a courtesy on the green. You are expected to keep a steady pace of play or you should let the groups behind you move forward. These may seem odd to you if you’ve never golfed before, but if you’re a golfer, you know that these are very standard. I want to use these next few blogs to familiarize all of us with some thoughts, tips, and even some personal opinions on how we are to behave and how our behavior can make church more beneficial to every person.
Church is a special and sacred place. America has lost her way with how we represent God in the church. I pray that this will stir some thoughts and challenge your approach with your church.









